FIRSTLY , We never let go of this part of us or dissolve it completely as it has some healthy uses as well
Most of us care WAY TOO MUCH what others think of us and because of this we hold ourselves back from doing things we desire to do or be etc
The best way to free yourself from what others think of you is to............
DO SOMETHING YOU HAVE BEEN DESIRING TO DO BUT HAVENT BECAUSE YOU FEAR WHAT OTHERS MAY THINK OF YOU
Others are "thinking" certain thoughts about us purely based on their belief systems or programs running in their sub-conscious minds
We have no control over this so why block ourselves moving forward because of this very complicated computer like system that is completely out of out control?
WE all desire connection and safety and as you start to do things regardless of others "thoughts", you free yourself more and more each time to show up for yourself in this way